Sunday, November 9, 2008

Perpisahan.......





ku mengerti.. perpisahan ini..

bukan kerana kau membenci

tapi kasih yang pernah ku beri

tiada lagi bersama



sering kala aku terlihatkanmu

impian nan indah bersulam bahagia

ku harungi hari demi hari

bersama wajah tak mungkin akan kembali



tapi hati masih tak terima

ditinggalkan sengsara

keraguan ini.. bukanlah padamu

perasaan hati masih rindu

kekalutan ini hanyalah untukku

tercari cari bayanganmu

tak sanggup aku kehilangan… mu

kehilanganmu..



keraguan ini .. bukanlah padamu

masih tercari-cari

kehilanganmu..

Nota: Lagu ini untuk orang yang kononnya nak berhenti meghela, dan yang telah mengaratkan semua besi di Sg Besi (",)

6 comments:

Nite Garden said...

Bila dengar lagu ni terkenang pada filem cinta... kasih dan sayang antara Fatimah Abu Bakar dan Dato' Rahim Razali... kasih dan sayang antara Que Haidar dan Nanu... They are the description of the bond and 'kinship' between us...

the anThropologist said...

Kinship? Is it appropriate to use that term to describe what we have now? Hmmmmm.....

Nite Garden said...

Correct me if i'm wrong as i have least understanding of the meaning of 'kinship'...
According to Kamus Dwibahasa Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka (1993) page 672; kinship means perhubungan kekeluargaan; pertalian kekeluargaan.
Would really appreciate if you could eleborate so that i would have a genuine understanding of the word kinship...
and why you said that the usage is inappropriate? Don't you think that i'm part of your 'kaum kerabat' or 'saudara mara' now?

the anThropologist said...

Yeah, that's a layman definition of kinship. But anthropologically speaking, kinship means "system of network". U read again, this time thoroughly, the essay. Then perhaps u would understand kinship as a "system of network".

If I want to use the layman definitoin of kinship, then yes you are now part of my "kaum kerabat". No doubt. But if I want to use the anthropological definitoin of kinship, perhaps it's still a long way to go. Coz kinship is not merely admitting or taking someone into his/her family group. It's more than that. For further understanding, please consult Kinship and Marriage (a classical anthropological study of kinship and marriage!!) by Robin Fox, 1926, London: Athlone Publication.

Nite Garden said...

ya... too bad i have no javanese blood.... but still i'm your kiddy kiddy sister ;p
anyway thanks for enlightenment..

the anThropologist said...

Ler... The other setan also no Javanese blood maa....

Kiddy-kiddy sista??? Sah-sah meghela!!!!

U'r most welcome!!! (",)